Beautiful things for a healthy relationship

Beautiful things for a healthy relationship:

When she stares at your mouth- Kiss her.

When she pushes you or hits you like a dummy cause she thinks shes stronger than you- Grab her and don’t let go.

When she starts cursing at you trying to act all tough- Kiss her and tell her you love her.

When she’s quiet- Ask her whats wrong.

When she ignores you- Give her your attention.

When she pulls away- Pull her back.

When you see her at her worst- Tell her she’s beautiful.

When you see her start crying- Just hold her and don’t say a word.

When you see her walking- Sneak up and hug her waist from behind.

When she’s scared- Protect her.

When she steals your favorite hoodie- Let her keep it and sleep with it for a night.

When she teases you- Tease her back and make her laugh.

When she doesn’t answer for a long time- reassure her that everything is okay.

When she looks at you with doubt- Back yourself up.

When she says that she loves you- she really does more than you can understand.

When she grabs at your hands- Hold her’s and play with her fingers.

When she bumps into you- bump into her back and make her laugh.

When she tells you a secret- keep it safe and untold.

When she looks at you in your eyes- don’t look away until she does.

When she says it’s over- she still wants you to be hers.



When she re-post this bulletin

she wants you to read it……!!!!!!!

- Stay on the phone with her even if she’s not saying anything.

- When she’s mad hug her tight and don’t let go.

- When she says she’s okay don’t believe it, talk with her because 10 yrs later she’ll remember you.

- Call her at 12:00am on her birthday to tell her you love her.

-Treat her like she’s all that matters to you.

- Stay up all night with her when she’s sick.

- Watch her favorite movie with her or her favorite show even if you think it’s stupid.

- Give her the world.

- Let her wear your clothes.

-When she’s bored and sad, hang out with her.

-Let her know she’s important.

- Don’t talk about other girls around her.

- Kiss her in the pouring rain.

6 KEYS TO A RELATIONSHIP...

6 KEYS TO A RELATIONSHIP...

When I get angry...

When I get angry...
I want you to try convince me
back...
When I feel sad..
I wish u would try to make me
smile...
When I lose hope I need you to
support me.... & make me strong...
When I act possessive I need you to
calm me down.. & handle me with
maturity.....
When I love you... I wish you to love me
back even more....

A real relationship

A real relationship,
Has fights.
Has trust.
Has faith.
Has tears.
Has hurt.
Has sweet smiles.
Has genuine laughter.
Has snorts because of the laughter.
Has weird,
stupid,
unnecessary arguments.
Has patience.
Has communication.
Has secrets.
Has jealousy

And most importantly it has Love ♥ ♥ ♥

A Great Relationship Happens
When
Two People
Who Truly Understand Each Other
and Love Each Other for Who
They Are
Come Together and Create
Something
Stronger Than Either of Them
Could Ever Be on Their Own

What makes a healthy love relationship?

 

 Keep physical intimacy alive

Touch is a fundamental part of human existence. Studies on infants have shown the importance of regular, loving touch and holding on brain development. These benefits do not end in childhood. Life without physical contact with others is a lonely life indeed.
Studies have shown that affectionate touch actually boosts the body’s levels of oxytocin, a hormone that influences bonding and attachment. In a committed relationship between two adult partners, physical intercourse is often a cornerstone of the relationship. However, intercourse should not be the only method of physical intimacy in a relationship. Regular, affectionate touch­—holding hands, hugging, or kissing—is equally important.
Be sensitive to what your partner likes. While touch is a key part of a healthy relationship, it’s important to take some time to find out what your partner really likes. Unwanted touching or inappropriate overtures can make the other person tense up and retreat—exactly what you don’t want.

Spend quality time together

You probably have fond memories of when you were first dating your loved one. Everything may have seemed new and exciting, and you may have spent hours just chatting together or coming up with new, exciting things to try. However, as time goes by, children, demanding jobs, long commutes, different hobbies and other obligations can make it hard to find time together. It’s critical for your relationship, though, to make time for yourselves. If you don’t have quality time, communication and understanding start to erode.
Couples are often more fun and playful in the early stages of a relationship. However, this playful attitude can sometimes be forgotten as life challenges or old resentments start getting in the way. Keeping a sense of humor can actually help you get through tough times, reduce stress, and work through issues more easily.

Focus on having fun together

• Think about playful ways to surprise your partner, like bringing flowers or a favorite movie home unexpectedly.
• Learn from the “play experts” together. Playing with pets or small children can really help you reconnect with your playful side. If it’s something you do together, you also learn more about your partner and how he or she likes to have fun.
• Make a habit of laughing together whenever you can. Most situations are not as bleak as they appear to be when you approach them with humor.

Learning how to play again

A little humor and playful interaction can go a long way in relieving tense situations and helping you see the brighter side. If you’re feeling a little rusty, learn more about how playful communication can improve your relationship, and for fun ways to practice this skill.

Never stop communicating

Good communication is a fundamental part of a healthy relationship. When people stop communicating well, they stop relating well, and times of change or stress can really bring out disconnect. As long as you are communicating, you can work through whatever problem you’re facing.

Learn your partner’s emotional cues

Each of us is a little different in how we best receive information. Some people might respond better to sight, sound, or touch. Your partner’s responses may be different from yours. Take some time to learn your partner’s cues, and be sure to communicate your own as well. For example, one person might find a brief massage after a stressful day a loving mode of communication—while another might just want to talk over a hot cup of tea.
So much of our communication is transmitted by what we don’t say. Nonverbal cues—such as eye contact, leaning forward or away, or touching someone’s arm—communicate much more than words. For a relationship to work well, each person has to be receptive to sending and receiving nonverbal cues. Learning to understand this “body language” can help you better understand what your partner is trying to say. Think about what you are transmitting as well, and if what you say matches what you feel. If you say “I’m fine,” but you clench your teeth and look away, then your body is clearly signaling you are not.

Question your assumptions

If you’ve known each other for a while, you may assume that your partner has a pretty good idea of what you are thinking and what you need. However, your partner is not a mind reader. While your partner may have some idea, it is much healthier to directly express your needs to avoid any confusion. Your partner may sense something, but it might not be what you need. What’s more, people change, and what you needed and wanted five years ago, for example, may be very different now. Getting in the habit of expressing your needs helps you weather difficult times, which otherwise may lead to increasing resentment, misunderstanding, and anger.

Use your senses to keep stress in check

If you’re not calm and focused, you won’t be able to communicate effectively. The best way to reduce stress quickly and reliably is through the senses. But each person responds differently to sensory input, so you need to find things that are soothing to you.

What makes a healthy love relationship?

What makes a healthy love relationship?

• Staying involved with each other. Some relationships get stuck in peaceful coexistence, but without truly relating to each other and working together. While it may seem stable on the surface, lack of involvement and communication increases distance. When you need to talk about something important, the connection and understanding may no longer be there.
• Getting through conflict. Some couples talk things out quietly, while others may raise their voices and passionately disagree. The key in a strong relationship, though, is not to be fearful of conflict. You need to be safe to express things that bother you without fear of retaliation, and be able to resolve conflict without humiliation, degradation or insisting on being right. 
• Keeping outside relationships and interests alive. No one person can meet all of our needs, and expecting too much from someone can put a lot of unhealthy pressure on a relationship. Having friends and outside interests not only strengthens your social network, but brings new insights and stimulation to the relationship, too.
• Communicating. Honest, direct communication is a key part of any relationship. When both people feel comfortable expressing their needs, fears, and desires, trust and bonds are strengthened. Nonverbal cues—body language like eye contact, leaning forward or away, or touching someone’s arm are critical to communication.

I want to be in a relationship
where...

She can wear my large t-shirt at
night
We can both sleep together in one
bed
We can be like kids making silly
faces and doing baby talks...
I can shout at her when I’m mad,
then she’ll hug me tight so I’ll shut
up
She’ll pull me close to her so I
won’t have the chance to let go...
We’ll watch horror movies
together
I’ll kiss her secretly then she’ll
smile
We’ll fight, but not that much
We’ll break up but get back
together few days after
She’ll make me the luckiest boy in
the world I’m the only Boy she
loves

Listen to your partner

Sometimes, all your partner wants is for you to lend an ear and be sympathetic about one of their problems. Other times, your partner wants you to actively give them advice. Know which one your partner is looking for, and try to give them what they want. Being a good listener is all about paying attention to what they're saying and not blowing it off. Listening to your partner will enhance your relationship in many ways. It will help you resolve differences without arguing; let you explore each other's personality more deeply; and even help you pick out an awesome Christmas present. There are no downsides to listening.

15 Ways to Keep a Relationship Working....

1. Love each other

2. Don’t lie. Every relationship has disagreements and days when staying isn't the easiest choice. But what makes a relationship healthy is choosing to resolve those problems and push through the hard days, instead of just letting issues and resentment fester.

3. Keep communication open

4. Stay sweet Follow through on your promises. When you say you're going to do something, do it. Don't say that you'll cook dinner, or get a birthday present, and then blow it off or simply forget about it. What this does is systematically destroy trust. And relationships need trust in order to thrive.
 

5. When you get hurt, focus on forgiving

6. Never talk about break-ups

7. Never say ‘it’s ok’ when it’s not

8. Learn to put your ego aside, if you know you've done something to hurt your partner, intentionally or not, own up to it. Humble yourself and apologize sincerely, without making excuses or justifications like "I'm sorry you made me angry."
Commit to changing your behavior. If you notice yourself apologizing for the same mistake over and over, step it up a level. Tell your partner that you recognize this mistake keeps happening, and you want to train yourself to stop. Request help and ask for him or her to gently point it out to you when you're making this mistake again.
 

9. If you say ‘sorry,' mean it

10. Don’t compare your past with your present

11. Don’t talk about your ex’s

12. Practice 'give and take'

13. Be aware of your partner’s feelings

14. After a fight, work on resolving the issue right
away; don’t let the days go by

15. Although there is no ‘perfect person’ out there,
There IS a ‘right one’ for u. Every relationship has disagreements and days when staying isn't the easiest choice. But what makes a relationship healthy is choosing to resolve those problems and push through the hard days, instead of just letting issues and resentment fester.

Review your expectations. Do you see your partner as a person, with both winning qualities and flaws, or as someone you expect to be perfect? If your expectations are so astronomical that no one could live up to them 100% of the time, you're setting up your relationship for failure.
Accept that conflict happens. If you expect to be in a long-term relationship, you're bound to have the occasional disagreement. Remember that one argument isn't the end of everything, and there's no person on earth that you'd agree with all the time.

Always ask yourself whether you're better off in the relationship than out of it. If you don't think you're better off in the relationship, then you probably should have a serious discussion with your partner. In a loving relationship, this question almost always gets a simple "Yes."